Your Roadmap to Lesbian Love for 2013

by Mary Gorham Malia

Is it too late to find a lesbian date for New Year’s Eve? Sort of cause New Year’s Eve has already happened!

Can you hear the clock ticking down the minutes until the big ball drops in Time Square?

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You want things to change right?

Is it possible that you can find love by the time the clock strikes 12:01AM?

Is it likely or even probable?

Nope! Not really. You knew that already right?

2012 is over. Tick, tick, tick…

What’s going to change for you in 2013?

If you participated in my webinars on how to find a date for the holidays before New Year’s Eve, perhaps you’ve actually taken action to get that date.

I hope so, but I was also really clear with you during the webinar that getting a date is not the same thing as looking for love.

Sometimes all we need is “a date”, someone friendly and available to attend a party or event with you but not the future love of your life. A friend, a cousin, your mom or dad… and yeah maybe even that ex who is now a really good friend. That’s one kind of date.

It’s also a really good exercise for any lesbian to be open to the idea that you can go to an event with someone on your arm who isn’t the love of your life and still have a great time.

Then there’s looking for love and a lasting relationship…

But enough of that, lets talk. It’s New Year’s and you’re single.

Still single! Single again! Doesn’t matter which way you got to being single the point is that you’re so ready to make a change in your relationship status that is more than going on a date. But you’re lost about what to change and how.

Perhaps it’s time to make a new kind of New Year’s commitment and that’s to work with a dating coach – your own personal trainer for lesbian love.

I’m rolling out three options for you to work with me in 2013. There’s limited access (cause there is only so much of me to go around!) so perhaps NOW is the right time for you to make the commitment to change your life in 2013.

Change happens most often because you are experiencing pain and want the pain to stop. Perhaps it’s the pain of your pants no longer fitting. It hurts to wear clothing that is too tight. So does something need to change? Darn right. And you know what it is but sometimes working with a personal trainer makes all the difference in the world between success or gaining more weight.

It’s more likely that you will gain 5 lbs this year if you just keep doing the same things than find an amazing woman and fall in love.

Gaining weight is easy; too easy for most of us. If you do nothing different about food and exercise, you’ll be part of the majority of people that gain weight this year; unless you make a highly motivated decision to change.  And for those of you that have this area of your life under control, congrats to you. Keep it up!

Do you want to change your life in 2013? How about your love life?

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If you’re reading and following me at Gay Girl Dating Coach, it’s because you want to do more than find love, you want a relationship that will last. You want to learn how to upgrade your gay girl picker. You want to make better decisions this time around instead of blowing your life up with another bad relationship.

You’ve realized you need to start doing things differently in your quest for love. Perhaps you’ve made some common mistakes in the past.

What about Lesbian Dating and Relationships? Are You Ready to Make a Change?

Are you avoiding the dating scene and online dating? Do you feel lost and discouraged about the whole experience. That can change in a day. I can help you make that change.

If you really want to make a change in your dating and relationship life, get involved in dating coaching with me. You will change your life and how you date, I promise!!

You can work with me in 2013 three different ways.

Level 1: The Road Map to Finding Lesbian Love VIP Program

This is my most popular program. It’s an intensive six month commitment. You get lots of one on one private coaching with me plus the keys to finding fun, laughter and lasting love. Your life can be transformed through this program.

Why should you consider this program?

  • You’re tired of the cycle – find her, fall in love, break up, wash, rinse, repeat!
  • You don’t know where to start – it’s been years since you’ve dated and it’s all so overwhelming!
  •  What the hell is online dating about anyway! It scares the pants off you but friends keep saying you need to get out there. HELP!
  • You’ve been trying and trying to find love and all you’re getting is discouraged and depressed. You don’t think you’ll ever find love.
  • You’ve quit dating but you know you want a relationship and not just any relationship.
  • You don’t know what you’re doing wrong when it comes to dating. You’d love to have someone who can help guide you through the maze of unspoken rules, unconscious choices and miserable results you’re getting.
  • You’re done with settling just to have someone in your life; you want love, connection and something that can last but you’re not sure how to get there. This is your map to finding love.
  • You’ve been at it for a while now and nothing is working, you need help cause you’re ready to quit.
  • You’re recently out and the dating scene isn’t what you thought it would be at all. You can’t figure out what you’re doing wrong!

What’s in it for you?

 Here’s what some of my clients are saying:

    • I’ve learned what’s really important to me and made a commitment to myself to stop compromising while I’m dating.
    • It never occurred to me that dating could be about fun and not always about asking “is she the one?”
    • The regular coaching calls have helped me to deal with my emotions. I’m not as discouraged all the time.
    • Wow, I now have a different way to think about chemistry and I feel like I’m so much more in control of my dating life.
    • Mary hasn’t just helped me with dating; she’s helped me see myself in a whole new way. My life has been transformed by this new approach to dating and life. When Mary says happiness is more than a date, she really means it.
    • I’m going on more dates than ever but now I’m really clear on what to look for and what’s a red flag for me to move on.
    • It’s wonderful to have someone to talk to about my dating life. I get real solid action steps to take that help me feel in control of what’s happening. Then I can come back and check in on what happened, how things are working and being held accountable to my commitments to myself.
    • I can’t recommend this program enough. Mary is accessible, she gets back to me, her support has been amazing.
    • I’m not just introverted, I’m shy and the body language videos have really helped me to realize that women have been flirting with me. I can see it now!
    • It took me longer than I initially expected to find my match, but it was so worth the wait. Thank you Mary for helping me stick to my guns and not settle.


Are you ready to change your dating life, stop settling and find lasting lesbian love? 

Then The Road Map to Finding Lesbian Love VIP Program is for you! 

Click here to schedule a private 30 minute strategy session and let’s see if this program is right for you! 

What’s happens in The Road Map to Finding Lesbian Love VIP Program

  1. We will work by phone or Skype, so it doesn’t matter where in the world you live!
  2. We will kick off your coaching program with a Deep Dive Coaching Call that is 90 minutes long where we explore what’s really going on in your dating life, your love patterns, blocks and barriers to love and what’s creating discouragement and defeat. You and I will have 3 private scheduled 30 minute sessions each month to help you stay on track.
  3. And if you’ve got a dating emergency, as a VIP client, you can text or email me your question. Yes! Seriously!
  4. You’ll have access to my insider secrets to dating, communication, sex and relationship that will help you better understand what you need and want in a relationship and provide you a step-by-step process to getting clear on what love and relationship mean to you.
  5. You get access to VIP coaching calls where I go into detail on how to date consciously with your head and heart engaged, how to develop new approaches to dating and not get discouraged with the dating process.
  6. You’ll get your own personalized Love Schedule – it’s your massive action plan for creating and finding love.
  7. You’ll get access to my video series, Body Language for Gay Girls: Read Her and Weep No More. It teaches you what flirting looks like, how to tell when a woman is interested in you and how to show her you are interested too.
  8. You’ll have access to my coaching support in a deeply personal, private, confidential and consistent way that will ensure you stay on the path to finding the right match for you.
  9. Plus you’ll also get access to all the content in my Gay Girl Inner Circle Program during your six months in the Road Map to Lesbian Love.  (A $282 value.)
  10. And, you’ll get free access to my upcoming 2013 webinar coaching series during that same time period. (That’s a value of up to $237.)

This six month program is $2400 when paid in full – Click here to pay in full.

Or you can make monthly payments of $447 – Click here to set up 6 monthly payments.

Not ready for my premier coaching program? Here are two more options. Keep reading.

 Level II: Private one hour “Coaching on the Fly” ~ $157.00

During these private 60-minute coaching calls, you are bringing an immediate pressing and painful problem that’s come up in your life.  Together we discuss strategies you can take right away to resolve your pressing problem and eliminate the pain.

Often we can get you scheduled for a call within a day or two depending on my schedule.

If you’re not ready for the intensive work of the VIP Total Love Strategy Coaching Program, then this is a great place to get limited but private coaching with me.

Click here to purchase a one hour “Coaching on the Fly” Session.

After payment is made, you will receive an email with a link to schedule your Coaching on the Fly session.

Level III: Gay Girl Dating Inner Circle – launches January 21st! ~ $47 a month

I’ve had to many requests from women that want to work with me to create an entry level program that would give you more access to some of my insider strategies and information. You asked and here it is!

Finally I’m launching my very special introductory program for women that want to

  1. Learn more about dating without losing your mind
  2. Get strategies for growing new strong healthy relationships
  3. Plus get access to live coaching calls with me every month
  4. You know you want more but you’re not ready for an in-depth coaching program.

Here’s where you’ll get to be part of a comprehensive, interactive coaching program. We’ll tackle a new facet of dating every month, answering your personal questions on our monthly calls, and you’ll be joining other women in Gay Girl Dating Coach’s exclusive members-only community forum.

 Oh My Gosh Yes, Sign me up the Gay Girl Dating Inner Circle! with a monthly payment of $47.

You can cancel at any time.

Here you will have access to three coaching videos from me each month that focus on a particular dating and relationship issue.

I’ll also host a live coaching call each month. You can call in with your dating questions and get coached by me on the call – it’s on a first come first served basis. These calls are also recorded and the recording is made available to you to listen to at your convenience if you can’t make the live call.

I cover one topic each month based on the needs of the group and the list of topics is extensive. Including:

  • Online dating – all the ins and outs of this amazing way to meet lesbians
  • Stages of dating
  • Slow dating and slow love
  • How to get started dating again after many years out of the lesbian dating scene
  • Sex – what, when, why, sex toys, and more
  • Communication – this is big, huge, mega-important
  • Trust and truth telling
  • Dealing with discouragement
  • How to know you’re ready to commit
  • Chemistry and attraction
  • Feminine versus masculine energy in lesbian relationships
  • Relationship builders versus destroyers in lesbian relationships

Click here to sign up the Gay Girl Dating Inner Circle! with a monthly payment of $47.

Finally Are You Recently Out?

I’ll have special segments for women who are just coming out as part of the Inner Circle program because that’s a season of life that needs it’s own special lessons.  I came out later in life and navigating this special time in your life definitely requires a Road Map!

Are you ready? Secure your place in the program that’s just right for you. Space is limited. Time is passing by. Don’t wait another year. Don’t wait another month, or week or day. 

It’s time. I’m waiting to help you change your life. It’s time to feel good about what 2013 is going to bring to you.

Happy New Year Gay Girls. I’m so excited about working with you in 2013. 

Much love, big hugs and hurrah for a  new year,  Mary

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Mary Gorham Malia is a gay girl who’s passed the age of 50, survived menopause, hot flashes and night sweats, raised two children, came out later in life and divorced, grew from being a baby dyke to a lesbian with many dating experiences, has been rescued from cubicle nation and now finds the wisdom of being a bit older as the salvation she always wanted. She’s gone from being lost and late to lesbian life to being a seasoned life traveler who has a commitment to reach out to the lesbian nation and make a difference for lgbt women.

Her business, Gay Girl Dating, LLC, was founded on the belief that lesbian, gay, queer, bi and transgender women can live extraordinary lives when they understand the principles and practices that make life great and put these practices into action in their own lives.

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