About

Mary Gorham Malia is a gay girl who’s passed the age of 50, survived menopause, hot flashes and night sweats, raised two children, came out later in life, divorced, has grown from being a baby dyke to a lesbian with many dating experiences, has been rescued from cubicle nation and now finds the wisdom of being a bit older to be the salvation she always wanted. She’s gone from lost and angry teenager to seasoned life traveler with a commitment to reach out to the lesbian nation and make a difference for lgbt women everywhere. Hence… gay girl dating coach is online!

As the founder and organizer of lesbian focused community groups in multiple states, with members numbering in the thousands, she brings her unique philosophies to women dating women wherever she can. Her unique focus is as a ”Step by Step You Can Live an Extraordinary Life” Gay Girl Dating Coach because happiness is more than dating!

She is committed to serving the gay girl community anywhere and everywhere it is in order to support women in being their most brilliant selves and creating extraordinary lives. Her focus on authenticity, humour and daring to dream show up in her writing and speaking and in her own life as well. Not only does she teach women how to date 21st century style but she also works with business owners and executives across many industries including marketing, health services, nonprofits, and technology.

Her business, Gay Girl Dating, LLC, was founded on the belief that lesbian, gay, queer, bi and transgendered women can live extraordinary lives when they understand the principles and practices that make life great and put these practices into action in their own lives.

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Marla Ryder October 20, 2011 at 11:59 am

Sign me up baby! How much do you charge old roomies???

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T. Radford January 24, 2012 at 7:44 pm

I’m interested in the lesbian focused community groups, Mary.

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Kathy Porter March 27, 2012 at 7:18 am

I really enjoyed your post “Late Arrivals”. It seems that when I am honest about the fact I was married before and had children, it’s like a red flag. The question is always asked are you sure or how do you know you want to be a lesbian? I have been turned down several times because I was married to a man. No matter how I try to explain myself they already have the opinion this isn’t what I really want. Even though I know this is what I want. I am 57 and I grew up in an age where I tried to fit in, by being good and marrying a man. I am not sorry for my children and I cherish every day I have them. I am happier than I’ve ever been making the choice to be a lesbian. Thank you for your insight.

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